More writing about writing

[ksmith]

Much blogging going on about the life of a working writer, mostly here, here, here, and over here. And here. There are likely some I missed, but they all seem to link together in one long blog necklace eventually, so give it time. If you want to read it, it will come.

I am not a working writer, in that I do not derive the majority of my income from writing. When I first started, I thought for sure that I would be able to quit the day job within a couple of years, but reality soon applied a blackjack upside my head. I'm not a fast writer. Too much worry about finances freezes me. When things get rough emotionally, I can barely manage sentences, much less entire books and stories. Add in the inconsistencies of the publishing world, and no, thanks. I'll do the best I can until I retire from the day job.

Maybe it's because I started so late. I didn't sell my first books until I was thisclose to 40, and I already had the mortgage and other financial obligations that I felt well and truly mitigated against taking any plunges into the deep end of the working writer pool. And even so, I know there are folks who took the chance, and some of them may have succeeded, but I know myself well enough to know that choice wouldn't work for me.

Writing can be a good job. When things are going well, it's the best there is. When it's not...I'm afraid I'm not one of those who can say that my worst day writing was better than my best day on my day job. My worst days writing are some of my worst days ever because writing's where my heart is. Too much fear. Too many roller coaster highs and lows. I've said it before--the day job is the marriage of convenience, relatively steady and not too exciting. Writing is the love of my life. But it's an inconstant love, capricious and cruel. I don't trust it. I don't trust the business. I don't trust the muse. Not going in without back-up, no the fuck way. I have to have room to maneuver.

I read some of the things that writers post here, and I get scared. Every time I let my mind wander, every time I start to gauge the depth at the deep end and think maybe, I reread those posts.

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[juliabk.livejournal.com]

Because in one respect, you may need to keep the 'my, art, my life' mindset in order to write a story as you think it should be written, in order to devote the time necessary to getting it right. But you also need to be able to take a step back, IMO, and assess where you are, and where you're going, and what you want from life. Your responsibilities. Your needs. Your health. Writing, however much it means to you, is still only part of who you are. It's an aspect, not a definition.

I find I have no use for 'lit'ry artistes'. Starving for your art sounds nicely romantic, but it's not very bright. Then there's the matter of what someone who has never *done* anything else could possibly have to say. (Yes, there are some who do have a great deal to say that's interesting to the rest of us, but they are, AFAIK the exception rather than the rule.) One of my favorite poems is The Day is Done by Longfellow. There's a passage that pretty much says it best:

Read from some humbler poet,
Whose songs gushed from his heart,
As showers from the clouds of summer,
Or tears from the eyelids start;

Who, through long days of labor,
And nights devoid of ease,
Still heard in his soul the music
Of wonderful melodies.

No one needs stories more than people who struggle to make it through life and who knows better what stories will appeal than the writers among them.

[kristine-smith.livejournal.com]

Despite the fact that this may be who/what I'm arguing against, the use of the term "lit'ry artistes' bothers me. Someone who is living the starving artist's life and tells me that I should be living it as well is walking the walk. They're sincere. They're just approaching matters in a way I wouldn't at this point, especially with greygirlbeast's posts on the subject rattling in my noggin, especially this:

No matter what you may have heard elsewhere or however you may have romanticized the life of working writers, know this: it is, with very, very few exceptions, a brutal, ugly, and unrelentingly difficult existence. It is a grind, no matter how much you may love to write or feel driven to tell stories.

My real irritation is directed toward the non-writers who would take it upon themselves to question my commitment because I'm not living the writer's life as they believe it should be led. That I would write something for money rather than love or commitment to the work? That's where it gets all messy again, because while I wouldn't be able to write something I didn't feel committed to, I would be hard-pressed at this point in my life to write something, even something I loved, without the prospect of a sale (read: $$) somewhere. Because it's time I will never get back, and I have a job, and a parent, and dogs, and somewhere in there, a private life, and writing is too damned difficult for me to undertake without the chance of receiving some sort of something for my time.

The thing is, I can type until my fingers cramp, and it won't make a bit of difference. Prospective writers will need to make up their own minds, and if they're bound and determined, nothing I say will stop them, which is the way it is. Nothing I heard or saw stopped me, either. The experts-I-will-always-have-with-me will consider me uncommitted, or a genre hack, or no one of consequence, or whatever. I consider that after ten years, I finally have a grip on myself, and I guess that's something.

[juliabk.livejournal.com]

Someone who is living the starving artist's life and tells me that I should be living it as well is walking the walk.

If they *are* actually doing it, then they're not what I consider a 'lit'ry artiste'. The ones I slap that phrase on are the ones who dabble because they can (meaning they have an income from somewhere). They consider themselves above anyone who doesn't quit their jobs and write full time and choose to 'suffer for their art'. These are the ones who think it would be romantic to be a starving artist and if only their husbands didn't make so much money they'd do it, too, by golly. They sell nothing because 'the world isn't ready for their vision'.

Cliche? Yeah. I've met far too many of them.

Someone who manages to find a way to keep body and soul together as a full time writer has my respect. I may think they're insane for trying it, but I'll be nothing but envious if they can do it. Like you, I'm far too risk averse to consider it without an additional source of income.

[juliabk.livejournal.com]

Forgot something.

In my experience, the ones who can make it have had life experiences before they try. They're not coming in as a blank slate (again, a certain individual comes to mind as an exception).